The End of Bullying Begins with You and Me

Dr. Blythe Hinitz is a Professor of Elementary and Early Childhood Education at The College of New Jersey. She was president and counselor of the Greater Trenton Alumni Chapter. She is a charter member of Kappa Delta Pi’s Eleanor Roosevelt Chapter.

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October is Bullying Prevention Month in the U.S. Almost everyone has been bullied at some point in their life, often for an actual or perceived characteristic over which they have no control, such as race; color; religion; ancestry; national origin; gender; sexual orientation; gender identity and expression; or a mental, physical, or sensory disability.

Fifteen years ago I brought this topic to the college classroom, when a publication by my colleagues Barbara Sprung and Merle Froschl became available: Quit it! A teacher’s guide on teasing and bullying for use with students in grades K-3 [Froschl, M.; Sprung, B.; and Mullin-Rindler, N. (1998).. NY: Educational Equity Concepts; Wellesley, MA: Wellesley College Center for Research on Women; and Washington, DC: NEA Professional Library.]

A female junior student wrote this story in her class journal: “When I was in kindergarten I started out wearing skirts. Every day, when I walked up the steps to get on the bus, a boy pulled my skirt up. I began to wear pants to school, and I continued to do that until I was in third grade.” When I asked my college classes about their experiences, they easily formed a concept web detailing the numerous forms of teasing and harassment, intimidation, and bullying (HIB) they had experienced.

Most states now have anti-bullying laws, backed by court cases in which the victims won with the support of advocacy organizations such as the Southern Poverty Law Center. It is the intent of state laws to strengthen the standards and procedures for preventing, reporting, investigating, and responding to incidents of HIB of students that occur in school and off school premises.

In the State of New Jersey the week beginning with the first Monday in October is celebrated as The Week of Respect. Every school district is required by law to provide age-appropriate instruction focusing on preventing HIB. The New Jersey Coalition for Bullying Awareness and Prevention is a resource for educators, parents, and the general public.

Anti-bullying and Teasing book

Here are some things that we can do to stop and prevent bullying:

Now that I’ve shared with you some of the ways I’m combatting HIB, fellow KDP members, please let us know how you are working to end bullying— it begins with you and me.

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